Stories of inflight interactions between flight attendants and passengers usually go viral because someone did something, well, not nice. This is not one of those.
JacqueRae Hill, from Dallas, Texas, has been a flight attendant with Southwest Airlines for 14 years. When the protests turned violent the night of May 29, she was overwhelmed.
“When I woke up on Friday morning, I went on social media, and that did not help the situation,” Hill said in an interview with CNN today.
She drove to Dallas Love Field for a flight to Panama City on Friday, praying for something. Something like hope. Understanding. Peace. Something to put a smile on her face. “It’s so difficult with everything going on. You want to be informed. But my job as a service person to provide somebody with happiness.”
She said she prayed on her way in, “God please help me get to work today.”
The flight started boarding, and Hill performed her usual safety checks, greeting passengers with a hello and a smile that her eyes had to deliver, because she was wearing a mask. “I feel stupid, I can’t stop smiling, even though you can’t see it.”
Books are magic
“I knew the book for a while. Michael Eric Dyson wrote the forward. It’s been on my list, but I just haven’t gotten it yet,” Hill said.
After she finished service, she moved toward the back of the plane, where the man who was reading the book was seated, alone, next to a window, typing on his phone.
“I plopped down and said, ‘Hey, how are you? So that book, how is it?'”
The two started conversing about the book. Hill recalls the man, who was white, saying, “It’s our fault. We have to start these conversations.”
As the man spoke these words, Hill became overwhelmed with emotion and began crying. “I know he didn’t know what to do. I know I startled him. I was embarrassed. I didn’t expect that. It was just a genuine moment for me, and we talked for 10 minutes.”
The big reveal
She thanked the man profusely for the incredible conversation, for his interest and for caring, weighed hugging him (she did). He asked her name, and she introduced herself. Then the man told her his name. “I’m Doug Parker, the CEO of American.”
Parker scribbled a note to Hill before deplaning, expressing his gratitude and pleasure at having met and spoken with her.
“I was thankful if he was a random person that had no influence. But because of his position in life, the fact that he’s reading that book. He does not have to educate himself. And the fact that he is, I just think that speaks volumes as to the work we all have to do in trying to bring ourselves together.”
Hill waited a day before posting about her experience on Facebook. “With all those emotions, I wanted to process it fully. I wanted to make sure how I wrote it was exactly how I was feeling.”
As the responses came flooding in after she shared her story in a Facebook post on Saturday afternoon, she realized that she had touched a nerve. A positive one. “I didn’t know it would be this big. The response has been overwhelming. I have cried every day. Happy tears.”
Hill also texted the story of her encounter with the CEO to her mother, Patti Anderson, who is an American Airlines employee. Anderson contacted Doug Parker to express her gratitude for the moment he shared with her daughter on the flight — and for the hug.
Parker replied to Patti Anderson, “[JacqueRae] certainly left an impression on me. Reading a book is one thing — spending time with a kind, strong, young black woman who is hurting and trying to learn from others is another thing altogether.”
Parker finished his reply by thanking Anderson for thanking him, “I was the one who was blessed by that conversation.”
Courtesy JacqueRae S.Hill
Spreading the message
Parker wrote a note to his officers at American Airlines over the weekend, which was later shared wider. In it he recounted the experience of meeting Hill and hearing from Anderson.
“Before we deplaned, I had a wonderful email from her mother, Patti, thanking me for comforting her daughter. I had done nothing, of course. JacqueRae was the brave one. I was sitting comfortably in the back sending you guys emails without thinking twice about what this young woman — and others like her — were going through. She was a gift to me.”
“It’s important for us to listen to one another to achieve understanding. This moment between Doug and one of our Flight Attendants is a beautiful example of that. Though we wear different logos, Doug and I have a duty to be the example for our People.”
Today, Southwest Airlines spokeswoman Brandy King wrote, “Tens of thousands of times every day, our People connect with Southwest Customers to weave across the sky a diverse patchwork of perspectives, life experiences, and understanding. We were touched by the dimension of a true connection between one of our amazing Southwest Flight Attendants JacqueRae and Southwest’s friend Doug Parker who leads another great, Texas-based airline. We thank Doug for the business, and for celebrating one of the many real connections that makes the more than 60,000 People of Southwest so special.”
Hill for her part is riding high on this incredible moment, but she doesn’t plan on letting it pass. “I want to work on a solution. I want to have conversations. This experience gives me hope. I feel like a shift will come out of this.”